If you’re male, just like me, you do NOT get to dicatate what “real” feminism is.
Yes, there are people who say some uncomfortable things in the name of feminism. Yes, it can be a sucky feeling. But try to put yourself in their shoes, to imagine what it’s like to be met with prejudice that is in favor of the opposite gender and at the expense of one’s own gender on a daily basis, something that I’m sure is far more of a hassle than “x person talked about men who cause problems to women”.
Not everything is about you and your feelings. Don’t just dismiss a socially progressive idea just because it makes you feel a little bothered.
Much as I dislike social justice advocates who take it too far (e.g. "die cis scum", "lol straight men don’t exist", etc.), the anti-SJW scene pisses me off as much sometimes, if not more; "anti-feminism, pro-equality" blogs are one such example of this sort of trash. Like, fucking whatever…just treat everyone with respect and kindness to the best of your abilities, stand up for oppressed and weakened people, etc.
Take feminism, for example: If you think the point of feminism is to harm men rather than to call the inequality between the genders to attention, then please look at the movement as a whole, not just female supremacists who think they’re feminists. Yes, men face issues as well (e.g. the acceptance of F-on-M abuse in contrast to attitudes towards the reverse, etc.) but those issues shouldn’t be brought up when the current subject is the rights and treatment of women.
SJWs suck, but a lot of anti-SJWs suck too. Throw them into DPRK-style reeducation camps or something please.